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What is the Contact filter and how does it work?

The Contact Filter makes sure you only hear from people you're interested in.

  • It's available with the Select upgrade.
    If you are using a computer click here.
    If you are using mobile click here.
  • Once you activate the filter, the only people who will be able to contact you on the site are people who match the filters you select.

To activate the contact filter:

  • go to your messages and click on the ☯️ symbol. In a few clicks, you activate the desired filters 🙌

Keep in mind: If a single has also activated the Contact Filter you will be able to contact only if your profile matches the criteria defined.

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